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Why don't boys move on easily after a breakup even a decade later?

I think it is due to the attachment and unfulfilled expectations. Everyone deserves to be loved and to be happy. But it really pains if you love someone so truly from the bottom of your heart and it goes unrequited. You will never completely move on if you ever truly loved her, but you will have to start living with it. Memories don't hurt. Love doesn't hurt. It is the attachment that hurts. It is the expectation that hurts. It is the imagined future that is now broken that hurts. When we lose someone that we love so truly and they walk out of your life for some reason, it hurts. This doesn't mean memories will haunt us. It is the collapsed future that hurts us. Living in the past with the ones we love brings us tears, not because that is lost, but because there was something that could have been forever, but it isn't now. That hurts. That stings and we tend to associate it with good memories. Sometimes we love people more than the memories they gave us. We fall for the

AN INCIDENT THAT SHOULDN'T HAVE HAPPENED.

  Okay, So it was 2018. I was 19 years old. I was a type of shy and innocent guy. I barely talked to girls in my school time. So, I was in 2nd year of college. One day my childhood friend came to my home and told me that her neighbor aunty want a chemistry home tutor for her daughter. She was in class 12th. I used to teach some boys but had never taught any girl before. Somehow I agreed to teach. I started to go to her home to teach her.  Everything gone well for one month. But after one month she started touching me at wrong place. Sometimes she used to touch my bare feet with her bare feet. I didn't say anything. I used to ignore her as I was teacher. I told this to my friend and he said abhay just grab the opportunity she might be in hunger, I couldn't understand. One day she told me that she has a boyfriend and her name is also abhay. I got jealous, may be it was a sign of falling in love. I asked her fb I'd. And she told me that her father beated him because he caug